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The Calling of the Christian Wedding Officiant

Case Study: “Can You Just Get One of Those Online Ordinations?”

“Hey, could you marry us?”

Jordan stared at the text from his cousin.
They were honored—but also nervous.

“We thought of you because you actually walk with God,” the couple said later.
“We just need you to do the ceremony. You can go online and get one of those instant ordinations, right?”

Jordan looked it up.
In five minutes, with no training and no questions about his faith, he could download a certificate and be “ordained.”

Something about that didn’t feel right.

Jordan didn’t want a shortcut title.
He wanted to honor God, serve his cousin well, and stand at the altar with a real sense of calling and preparation.

That decision—to take the role seriously—is how many Christian Wedding Officiants begin.

Most people see a wedding as a beautiful day.
God sees a wedding as the birth of a new family.

Right in the middle of that moment, God often places…
you.

Not as a prop.
Not as a legal formality.
But as a minister of Jesus Christ standing at the doorway of a covenant.

This is the calling of the Christian Wedding Officiant.

1. More Than “Doing a Favor”

For many of us, the journey starts with a simple request:

“Would you marry us?”
“You’re the most spiritual person we know.”
“We don’t have a pastor… could you help?”

It can feel informal, even casual.
But heaven does not see it as casual.

When you officiate a wedding, you are:

• Speaking God’s words of blessing over a couple.
• Reading God’s Scriptures about love, covenant, and faithfulness.
• Inviting a man and a woman to make public vows before God and witnesses.
• Standing as a visible representative of Christ and His Church.

You may stand under an arch in a backyard, on a beach, in a banquet hall, or in a little country church. The setting may be simple or extravagant—but the spiritual reality is the same:

A covenant is being formed, and God is watching.

That is why your role matters so much.

2. A Minister at the Threshold of a New Household

The Bible takes marriage seriously. Scripture calls it a “one flesh” union (Genesis 2:24), a picture of Christ and the Church (Ephesians 5:31–32), and a covenant meant to reflect God’s faithful love.

When you officiate a wedding:

• You stand at the threshold of a new household.
• You help a couple frame their marriage in God’s story, not just a romantic moment.
• You call them to faithfulness, forgiveness, and grace—the daily work of love.

You are not just “running the script.”
You are bringing a brief, clear gospel word into a moment the couple will remember for the rest of their lives.

Some guests may be strong believers.
Some may be far from God.
Some may be skeptical or hurting.

In that mixed crowd, you are called to:

• Speak truth with gentleness and clarity.
• Hold up a vision of marriage that is biblical, beautiful, and hopeful.
• Point beyond human romance to the greater love of Christ.

3. More Than an Instant Online Ordination

Today, it is easy to find “instant online ordination” options. With a few clicks, a small fee, and no real training or accountability, someone can download a certificate and call themselves an officiant.

As Christians, we want something deeper than that.

This course and the Christian Leaders Alliance ordination pathway are different because they emphasize:

• Biblical training, not just a certificate
  You aren’t just getting a title; you’re learning God’s design for marriage, how to handle Scripture, and how to care for couples.
• Local endorsement, not just a website’s approval
  People who actually know you—pastors, mentors, fellow believers—are asked to affirm your character and calling.
• Accountability, not isolation
  You are connected to a global family of leaders, not just a document on your printer. You’re invited into ongoing learning, standards, and community.
• Integrity in how you represent Christ
  When you say, “By the authority given to me…,” you want that authority to reflect real preparation, real recognition, and a real connection to the Body of Christ.

We are not here to attack or insult people who choose another path. But we are saying:

Your calling is worth more than a quick click.
The couples you serve deserve more than a casual credential.
God’s covenant of marriage deserves ministers who have been taught, tested, and trusted.

That is why you are here.
You are choosing a path of substance, integrity, and discipleship, not just convenience.

4. Called in Everyday Life, Affirmed in the Body of Christ

Most Christian Wedding Officiants are not famous pastors.

They are:

• Fathers and mothers.
• Friends and co-workers.
• Small group leaders and volunteers.
• Everyday believers whose faith and love are noticed by others.

Often, the call comes through that recognition:

• A family member trusts you to bless their marriage.
• A friend sees your walk with God and asks you to stand with them.
• A church or mentor says, “You should consider becoming an officiant. God has gifted you for this.”

At Christian Leaders Institute, your study is one way of saying:

“Lord, I’m taking this seriously. I want to be equipped.”

Through the Christian Leaders Alliance, local believers and mentors affirm your:

• Character – a life that seeks integrity and repentance.
• Calling – a sense that the Lord is leading you into this ministry.
• Competence – training and readiness to serve well.

Ordination as a Wedding Officiant with the Christian Leaders Alliance is not just paperwork. It is the Body of Christ recognizing:

“We see God’s hand on you. We bless you to stand at the altar in Jesus’ name.”