Reading: Biblical Sexuality in Marriage II (The Video Slides)

Biblical Sexuality II: Queen Attitudes by Henry Reyenga

Solomon's Queen 

Continually Respecting

Noticing what he does for you

Helps out and shows appreciation

Standing up for him (Loyalty)

Not Be the Know It all, fix it all

When asked, Be decisive

Some Things Wives Need to Know About Their Husband

God made...

Deuteronomy 21:11 (NIV)

 If you notice among the captives a beautiful woman and are attracted to her, you may take her as your wife.

 God made him sensory in relation to you

These are the ways your husband sees you

You're his Solomon bride

Your graceful legs are like jewels 7:1)

Your breasts are like two fawns (7:3)

Song of Solomon 4:10 (NIV)

How delightful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much more pleasing is your love than wine, and the fragrance of your perfume than any spice!

Queen Attitudes

Be Intoxicating to your man

Song of Solomon 7:9-10 (NIV)

May the wine go straight to my lover, flowing gently over lips and teeth. I belong to my lover, and his desire is for me.

 Take the sexual lead

Song of Solomon 7:12-13 (NIV)

Let us go early to the vineyards to see if the vines have budded, if their blossoms have opened, and if the pomegranates are in bloom-- there I will give you my love. The mandrakes send out their fragrance, and at our door is every delicacy, both new and old, that I have stored up for you, my lover. Under the apple tree I roused you (8:5)

Admiring his Looks

Song of Solomon 5:10 (NIV) My lover is radiant and ruddy, outstanding among ten thousand.

The power of your scent

Song of Solomon 1:12 (NIV)

While the king was at his table, my perfume spread its fragrance.

Be self-aware of what your presence means to your husband and bless him with it

Song of Songs 6:15 Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread abroad. Let my lover come into his garden and taste its choice fruits.

Lift your Husband Up

Song of Solomon 3:11 (NIV)

Come out, you daughters of Zion, and look at King Solomon wearing the crown, the crown with which his mother crowned him on the day of his wedding, the day his heart rejoiced.

Readiness for Your King

Song of Solomon 5:2-5 (NIV) I slept but my heart was awake. Listen! My lover is knocking: Open to me, my sister, my darling, my dove, my flawless one. My head is drenched with dew, my hair with the dampness of the night. I have taken off my robe-- must I put it on again? I have washed my feet-- must I soil them again? My lover thrust his hand through the latch- opening; my heart began to pound for him. I arose to open for my lover, and my hands dripped with myrrh, my fingers with flowing myrrh, on the handles of the lock.

 The marital relations are good. Teach your children that fact.

Song of Solomon 8:2-3 (NIV)

 I would lead you and bring you to my mother's house-- she who has taught me. I would give you spiced wine to drink, the nectar of my pomegranates. His left arm is under my head and his right arm embraces me.

Kidnap him now and then

Song of Solomon 3:4 (NIV)

Scarcely had I passed them when I found the one my heart loves. I held him and would not let him go till I had brought him to my mother s house, to the room of the one who conceived me

Your Goal: A Fulfilled, Contented King

Song of Solomon 5:1 (NIV)

I have come into my garden, my sister, my bride; I have gathered my myrrh with my spice. I have eaten my honeycomb and my honey; I have drunk my wine and my milk.

Song of Solomon 8:10 (NIV)

I am a wall, and my breasts are like towers. Thus I have become in his eyes like one bringing contentment.