Reading: Personal Finances part 3 (Slides)
Personal Finances
Professor Steve Elzinga
Three winning attitudes towards succeeding in your personal finances
Attitude One: I am somebody
Proverbs 4:23 (GN) Be careful how think because your life is shaped by your thoughts.
Believe you are somebody
Problem: We tend to see ourselves through the eyes of others
Solution: See yourself through the eyes of God
Believe you are somebody
Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV) For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
Attitude Two: I am needed
Corinthians 12:27 (NIV) 27 Now you are the body of Christ, and each one of you is a part of it.
Romans 12:5 (LB) We belong to eachother and each of us needs all the others.
Ephesians 1:11 In him we were also chosen, having been predestined according to the plan of him who works out everything in conformity with the purpose of his will, 12 in order that we, who were the first to put our hope in Christ, might be for the praise of his glory.
Attitude Two: I am needed
Ephesians 4:4-16 There is one body and one Spirit, just as you were called to one hope when you were called; 5 one Lord, one faith, one baptism; 6 one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.... 16 From him (christ) the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work.
Attitude Three: I will try
2 kinds of problems:
Invented
Inherited
Make trying the goal not avoiding problems
Philippians 3:13 (NIV) Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus.
If avoiding problems is your ultimate goal you will ...
... never try anything new
... never take responsibility
... never accept a challenge
... never commit to anything
When you fail try again
Proverbs 20:3 Sometimes if takes a painful situation to make us change our ways.
Four winning skills needed for succeeding in your personal finances
Skill one: Self-discipline
= delayed gratification
Proverbs 10:5 (NIV) He who gathers crops in summer is a prudent son, but he who sleeps during harvest is a disgraceful son.
Four winning skills needed for succeeding in your personal finances
Skill Two: Communication
Talk to people you trust
Listen to people you trust
Four winning skills needed for succeeding in your personal finances
Skill Three: Responsibility
Make yourself responsible when it comes to your finances.
How?
Understand the power of consequences.
Consequences
Natural
Proverbs 16:26 (NIV) The appetite of laborers works for them; their hunger drives them on
Consequences
Logical
2 Thessalonians 3:10 (NIV) For even when we were with you, we gave you this rule: "The one who is unwilling to work shall not eat.”
Consequences
Agreed to
Genesis 2:16-17 (NIV) And the Lord God commanded the man, "You are free to eat from any tree in the garden; 17 but you must not eat from the tree of the knowledge of good and evil, for when you eat from it you will certainly die.”
Skill Four: Judgment