Relationship
Coaching

Matchmaking Ministers as Teachers of God’s Kingdom Principles of Love

Career and Bi-Vocational Ministry

Matchmaking and coaching can be full-time or bi-vocational


Matchmaking Ministry should intersect with every other ministry

       - Kids (offering child care at events for single parents)

       - Teens (classes)

       - Young adult

       - Substance Abuse (coaching, mentoring, support)

       - Men

       - Married

       -  Seniors



Why Coaching?

Water, water everywhere and not a drop to drink


Clients need to identify – who they are & who they are looking for


Is the person you’re looking for looking for you?


Many haven’t put much thought into it


Driven by chemistry and attraction as a primary tool to establish compatibility


Relationships not working and they do not know why


Coaching Gets Results

Online dating and dating services have more failure than success


Matchmaking is only as successful as the client


Can put clients in front of the perfect match and they won’t know it


Coaching accelerates success in finding a match


Sets clients up for a lasting relationship 


Creates positive changes in all area of life

Countering Culture

So much knowledge available online


People have never been more confused


Media, TV, Movies, News, “Science”, “Religion”


Bad coaching based on opinion, experiments, secular values and dumb ideas


Dysfunctional to navigate a dysfunctional system

Matchmakers as
coaches and ministers

People are hungering for truth and having a hard time finding it


The only foundation for a successful relationship is God’s Word


God invented marriage


Knowing the mind of the manufacturer


Man has come up with his own approaches – none are better than God’s



Kingdom Approach To Matchmaking

Tradition, Culture and “religion” have distorted God’s plan

Studying original Hebrew meanings of words


Kingdom perspective

          - God did not create a religion

          - Jesus came to restore the kingdom


John 18:36

Jesus answered “My kingdom is not of this world.  If my Kingdom were of this world, then my servants would be fighting so that I would not be handed over to the Jews: but as it is, My kingdom is not of this realm.”

Seeking Love…Seeking God

People seeking Love are often seeking God

Working with Christian and non-Christian clients


People in pain over relationships 

          - Non-Christians - Try Jesus

          - Christian - Ready to deepen their relationship with God

         - Coachable in deepening their relationships with themselves

Luke 8:10

“ To you it has been granted to know the mysteries of the Kingdom of God, but to the rest it is in parables, so that seeing they may not see and hearing they may not understand”


Last modified: Tuesday, September 10, 2019, 9:55 AM