Slides: Lesson 2
Education not Indoctrination
Understanding God’s plan for relationships
Comparing God’s plan to the world
Applying God’s plan to gain insight into past experience
Implementing God’s plan for future success
Withholding judgement
Asking questions
Guiding the client to see, hear and apply God’s plan
Matthew 13:46
“ Again the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant seeking fine pearls, and upon finding one pearl of great value, he went and sold all that he had and bought it.”
Matchmakers as
Coaches and Ministers
God is the only relationship expert
The church should be at the forefront of relationships
Taken a backseat
People go elsewhere
40% - 60% adult congregation is single – many who don’t want to be
- Embarrassed about their past relationship failures
- No resources available
- Imbalance of women
Coaching Program
5 Weeks
One-on-one
Science
Psychology
Biblical Wisdom
Personal Love Blueprint
Intake – About The Client
Free 15 minute phone consultation
Important questions
1. Name, age, location, occupation, kids?
2. How long have you been single and looking?
3. What other methods have you tried?
4. What are your challenges in finding a relationship? (busy, new to area, etc)
5. What prompted you to call a Matchmaker?
6. How would you like me to help you?
Intake – About The Process
If they are a Good Candidate
Would you like me to explain how the process works?
1. One hour consultation
2. 5-week coaching (success rate)
3. Matchmaking
Matchmaking Process
Handpicked matches
Photos and profile
Personal call & questions
Reservations
Meet your match
Feedback
1. What did you like about your match?
2. Is there anything you didn’t like?
3. Would you like to see them again?