Slides: Lesson 2

Education not Indoctrination

Understanding God’s plan for relationships

Comparing God’s plan to the world 

Applying God’s plan to gain insight into past experience

Implementing God’s plan for future success

Withholding judgement

Asking questions

Guiding the client to see, hear and apply God’s plan

Matthew 13:46

“ Again the kingdom of heaven is like a merchant seeking fine pearls, and upon finding one pearl of great value, he went and sold all that he had and bought it.”

Matchmakers as
Coaches and Ministers

God is the only relationship expert

The church should be at the forefront of relationships

Taken a backseat

People go elsewhere

40% - 60% adult congregation is single – many who don’t want to be

          - Embarrassed about their past relationship failures

          - No resources available

          - Imbalance of women

Coaching Program

5 Weeks

One-on-one

Science

Psychology

Biblical Wisdom

Personal Love Blueprint

Intake – About The Client

Free 15 minute phone consultation

Important questions

          1.  Name, age, location, occupation, kids?

          2.  How long have you been single and looking?

          3.  What other methods have you tried?

          4.  What are your challenges in finding a relationship? (busy, new to area, etc)

          5.  What prompted you to call a Matchmaker?

          6.  How would you like me to help you?

Intake – About The Process 

If they are a Good Candidate

Would you like me to explain how the process works?

              1.  One hour consultation

              2.  5-week coaching (success rate)

              3.  Matchmaking

Matchmaking Process

Handpicked matches

Photos and profile

Personal call & questions

Reservations

Meet your match

Feedback

   1. What did you like about your match?

  2. Is there anything you didn’t like?

  3.  Would you like to see them again?