Reading: Assessing Compatibility

There are a few things you can look for when assessing compatibility using online dating tools or any way of meeting someone.

Proverbs 16:3     Commit to the LORD whatever you do, and your plans will succeed

• Prayer: Prayer is the foundation for assessing compatibility. 
• Support: Be transparent with the matchmaker minister, pastor trusted friend. Be open to their input, but realize that you must make and own the decisions.  
• Compliments: Are there ways that you see how you can complete the other person? Opposites attract. 
• Values and beliefs: It's important to find someone who shares your values and beliefs. This could include things like religion, politics, or family.
• Interests and hobbies: It's may also important to find someone who shares some of your interests and hobbies. 
• Life goals: It's important to find someone who has similar life goals to you. This could include things like marriage, children, or career.
• Communication style: It's important to find someone who communicates in a way that you're comfortable with. This could include things like how often they text, how they express their feelings, or how they handle conflict.
• Chemistry: Finally, it's important to find someone with whom you have chemistry. This is something that you can't really put your finger on, but you'll know it when you feel it.

It's important to remember that no one is perfect. There will always be some level of compromise when it comes to finding a compatible partner. However, by looking for the qualities listed above, you can increase your chances of finding someone who is a good fit for you.

Here are some additional tips for assessing compatibility using online dating tools:

• Take your time: Don't rush into anything. Take your time to get to know potential matches and see if there's a connection.
• Be honest: Be honest about yourself and what you're looking for. This will help you to attract potential matches who are a good fit for you.
• Be patient: It may take some time to find the right person. Don't get discouraged if you don't find someone right away.

Finding a compatible partner can be a challenge, but it's definitely possible. By following these tips, you can increase your chances of finding the love of your life.