Reading: Never Married Singles

• Be aware of the different stages of singleness. Not all singles are the same. Some singles are happily single and have no desire to get married, while others are actively looking for a spouse. It is important to be aware of the different stages of singleness so that you can provide the best possible support to your singles.
• Be sensitive to the needs of never before married singles. Never before married singles may have a lot of questions and concerns about marriage. They may be worried about things like compatibility, communication, and intimacy. It is important to be sensitive to their needs and to provide them with accurate information about marriage.
• Be a good listener. One of the most important things a matchmaking minister can do is to be a good listener. Singles need someone they can talk to about their hopes, dreams, and fears. They need someone who will listen without judgment and who will offer them support.
• Be a role model. Singles look to their ministers for guidance and support. It is important to be a good role model for your singles. This means living a life that is consistent with your beliefs and values. It also means being open and honest about your own experiences with dating and marriage.
• Be patient. Finding a spouse takes time. It is important to be patient with your singles and to encourage them to keep looking. Remind them that God has a plan for their lives and that He will bring the right person into their lives at the right time.

Here are some additional tips for matchmaking ministers:

• Create a safe and welcoming environment. Singles need to feel comfortable talking to you about their dating and marriage goals. Make sure they know that you are there to support them, no matter what.
• Offer education and resources. There are many resources available to help singles learn more about dating and marriage. Make sure your singles know about these resources and how to access them.
• Connect singles with each other. One of the best ways to help singles find a spouse is to connect them with each other. Encourage them to attend singles events and to get involved in singles ministries.
• Pray for your singles. Ask God to bless your singles and to help them find the right spouse. Let them know that you are praying for them.

Matching singles is a challenging but rewarding task. By following these tips, you can help your singles find the love and happiness they deserve.