Reading: Ideal Talking and Listening Ratio

Ideal Talking and Listening Ratio

The ideal talking-to-listening ratio on a first date is 2:1. This means that you should listen twice as much as you talk. This will help you to get to know your date better and show that you are interested in what they have to say.

When you are talking, try to focus on sharing interesting stories and information about yourself. Avoid talking about yourself too much, as this can make you seem self-centered. Instead, focus on asking questions and getting to know your date.

When you are listening, make eye contact, nod your head, and ask follow-up questions. This will show that you are paying attention and that you are interested in what your date has to say.

By following these tips, you can create a balanced conversation on your first date and get to know your date better.

Here are some additional tips for talking and listening on a first date:

• Ask open-ended questions. These are questions that cannot be answered with a simple yes or no. They will help you to get to know your date better and to start a conversation. Include spiritual things but not religious or Christian controversies. Avoid politics. 
• Be a good listener. This means paying attention to what your date is saying, not just waiting for your turn to talk.
• Show interest in what your date has to say. This means asking follow-up questions, nodding your head, and making eye contact.
• Be yourself. Don't try to be someone you're not. Your date will appreciate you for who you are.
• Have fun! A first date should be enjoyable for both of you. Relax, be yourself, and enjoy getting to know each other.