Audio Transcript: Rebecca Pippert on Grace
Announcer - I first met Becky Pippert and her husband Wes back a number of years ago, at a very important event down in Fort Lauderdale InterVarsity Christian Fellowship every year has the Fort Lauderdale event. And if you don't know about that you should go to the end of the assembly hall and talk to our colleagues there about that great opportunity to go to the beach, and to witness for Jesus Christ of people who would like to hear many of them and Becky was there teaching us about evangelism because she is an evangelist. Many of you know that Becky is written out of the salt shaker that has sold some 400,000 copies so far. But that was a thrilling evening. That night is my wife, Lois, and Becky and Wes, we walked up and down the strip and we went around among these young people. We sat around a pool one evening, and pray together talk together. God has given Becky a great concern not only for evangelism, but concerning our own personal relationship for Jesus Christ. Many of you might know that West has been a UPI, person, correspondent been in Israel served at the White House. And Becky has backed him up. Probably the most wonderful thing about them is they're lovely to children. Like you, Becky Pippert is going to come and share with us, evangelism, the heart of missions, Becky.
Rebecca Rippert - Thank you very much. I really appreciated the discernment of saying that the best thing about me is my children. That is absolutely true. This is my hometown. And this is not only my hometown, this is my alma mater, I did
graduate work at the University of Illinois. I am also sure that I'm the only speaker who has addressed you, who has a grandmother and a father, and a brother and a sister and next door neighbors who are all here, right now. And people ask me so frequently, what is it? How did you get where you are what shaped you and I have often said several things about my family. But one thing I would like to say before you and that is I have a father, who always made me feel that I could do it, that even the attempt was the most important thing. And for a woman that's a very important kind of encouragement. I have an 85 year old grandmother who did the most she loved me. I'm wondering if they could stand and we could thank them for all they've done for me. I hope you love your family as much as I love mine. I have been traveling and speaking and one of the things that always amuses me as I travel and speak is how people respond when I tell them what I do for a living. Usually they don't believe me. And I was flying from New York to California and I sat down next to this guy who was your absolutely quintessential Southern California type. He had the obligatory gold chains, you know, the open collar everything but the feathers. You know what I mean? I don't know what this guy was smoking, but he was in a word mellow. And we were talking and all of a sudden he said, Hey, what do you do for a living? And I said, I'm in Christian work. And he said, Hey, that's cool. He said, I wouldn't hold it against you. I said, How thoughtful. I appreciate that a little bit later. I'm flying back from California to New York and I'm sitting down next to
your quintessential New Yorker, intense. I was hanging on by my fingertips in this conversation. And he said, What do you do for a living? I said, I'm in Christian work. He said, That's impossible. I said why? He said you look normal. Little bit after that. I was flying into Lubbock, Texas. Yeah. I don't know if you remember that song by Mack Davis called happiness is Lubbock, Texas in a rearview mirror. I didn't write the song. Anyway, I'm on this little commuter plane and I'm sitting next to this woman. And there was only about six people on the plane. Five of them were obviously East Coast types with their Wall Street Journal's and their briefcases and I'm sitting next to this woman from Lubbock. And she says, What do you do for a living? And I said, I'm in Christian work, and she said, Oh, honey, that's sweet. She said that is the sweetest thing. She said, you stay here right now. Like I'm not really planning to get off the plane. And she turns this is absolutely true. She turns to all of the fellow New Yorkers reading their Wall Street Journal's. And she said, this little girl over here works for Jesus. Everybody Everybody put down their Wall Street Journal's everyone looked over at me and I said, Well, what can I say it's a living, you know. However, I am wondering if you are hearing what I am hearing, and that is, as I listen to the questions, as I meet people, and I hear the question behind the question, I really wonder if you have the same kind of question asked of you when you go back on campus? You know, the question I really hear, what difference does it make to believe in God? Does it really make a difference? My husband had a fellowship at Harvard, and I was with him taking classes at Harvard, and one of the faculty there said, Becky, I want to tell you something. I admire your faith. I really do. But I want to ask you a question. Do you really think it makes a difference to believe in God? He said, Becky, Isn't life pretty much the same for all of us? Don't all of us really want to be loved? We want to be a part. We don't want to be left out. Whether we believe in God or not. He said, Isn't life difficult for all of us? I don't think cancer cells ask before entering a body Excuse me, are you a praying man? He said I don't. Don't you the way we try to raise our children to go right and yet some go wrong and leave us brokenhearted? He said don't most of us have conflict between morality and desire. Isn't life pretty much the same? He's and don't you fail morally, as we do. He said maybe Christians do better in some areas than others. But what about pride and hypocrisy and racism? Does it really make a difference? Furthermore, there's been a lot of discussion these days about our need for mentors. The idea is that we need to see qualities that we admire emulated through people we see who were the mentors for the graduating class of 1987. In business, it was Ivan Boesky. In politics, it was Gary Hart and in religion, it was Jim Baker. Now that's pretty sobering. Even more sobering, is that two of these three men came from strong, evangelical roots. Two of these three men at some point in their life proclaimed a deep faith in God. But when push came to shove, what difference did their roots and their nurture really make? It didn't seem to make much
difference at all? And we have to ask ourselves, does it make a difference to believe in God? Furthermore, I meet many Christians who are really secretly discouraged. I doubt there's a Christian in this auditorium that doesn't long for the grace to simply live, what they believe. We begin our walk with God with great enthusiasm. And then slowly we begin to see we may not love him as much as we thought we did. We understand obedience better, but we feel less inclined to pay the price. And we begin to say, do my problems and temptations make a mockery of faith? Does it make a difference to believe in God? And even the world is aware that we've got a problem? Time Magazine did an entire issue on ethics. They entitled it whatever happened to ethics, assaulted by sleaze scandal and hypocrisy, America searches for its moral bearings. It began by saying lamentation is in the air, Clay feet litter the ground. Does it make a difference to believe in God? Well, the remarkable thing is the secular prophets that are arising secular prophets that are really saying what we should be saying Gary Trudeau, who writes the cartoon strip, Doonesbury, in a commencement address said, we live in an age where men and women would rather be envied than esteemed. And when that happens, God help us. Dan Rather, did a radio spot entitled whatever happened to sin. Ellen Goodman, the Boston Globe, journalist did a column on the goodness of guilt. Meg Greenfield of Newsweek did an article on the possibility of moral absolutes. Even the secular press corps, the group everybody loves to hate, has entitled this presidential campaign, the campaign of character, and perhaps the most powerful of the secular prophets, was Ted Koppel in his address at Duke for his commencement, and he said, we have actually convinced ourselves that slogans will save us shoot up if you must, but use a clean needle, enjoy sex whenever and with whomever but just wear a condom. No, the answer is no. And not because it isn't cool or smart or because you might end up in jail or dying in an Aids Ward, but no, because it's wrong. Because we've spent 5000 years as a race of rational human beings trying to do drag ourselves out of the primeval slime by searching for truth and moral absolutes. In its purest form, Truth is not a polite tap on the shoulder. It is a howling reproach. What Moses brought down from Mount Sinai, were not the five suggestions. What I am hearing from the secular prophets is where are you? What difference does it make wake up out there? What kind of contribution Are you going to make? Now I must say that when Christians tried to make a contribution, often were immediately told separation of church and state go back to the pews, we need to make a contribution that is intelligent, sensitive and unselfrighteous. But the question has to be asked if the secular prophets are saying this, does it make a difference? I want to say it does. It makes a tremendous difference, believing in God. But we've gotten into trouble because we've forgotten what we already know. We have forgotten what the problem is and what the solution is. The problem according to the Scriptures, is the human heart. It is the problem of sin. And the treatment for sin has always been grace.
How did we come to forget? We live in a strange times where we walk around acting as if we're basically wonderful people who occasionally do bad deeds. Even as early in our history as when the Constitution was written. They wrote the Constitution because they understood human nature was treacherous, that we needed some help. The problem hasn't changed. I think we've just develop short memories. What's the problem? The problem is sin. GK Chesterton said it as concisely as anyone I know, when he was asked to respond to a magazine, entitled The essay was to be entitled what's wrong with the universe? It has to be the shortest answer in history. I am sincerely GK Chesterton. The core of the problem is not psychological or emotional or spiritual. The core of the problem rather, is spiritual, it is the problem of the heart. GK Chesterton said I find it amazing that modern people have rejected the doctrine of original sin when it's the only doctrine that can be empirically verified. What's the solution? The solution is the grace of God that promises to change our heart of stone into a heart of flesh, not overnight, to be converted isn't a finished product. But God will help us with His grace to become new people. It changes us, how can we understand the problem and the solution, we need to look at the cross and the resurrection. I wish I had time for both. But we're only going to have time right now to look at the cross. The cross will help you understand what the problem is and what the solution is. If you're going to be a witness on your campus. When you look at the cross, you really have to keep two images in mind. And the two images are this, we crucified Him, and we were crucified with Him. Both are true. We crucified Him, we were crucified with him. What does it mean that Jesus died, and we participated in his death? Several years ago, I was speaking at a conference and I, after I got done, a lovely woman came and spoke to me. She was beautiful. She was godly and she was tortured. And she told me her story. She says that she and her fiance many years ago had been the leaders of a youth group at their church. And they had a tremendous ministry. They were to get married in June. And somewhere in that year, they began to have an affair. And she discovered that she was pregnant. She said she felt bad enough, that the very thing she was trying to counsel others to do. She was doing that was bad enough, but to find out that she was pregnant, she said we knew that the church could never handle our failure. That is a tragic statement. A hospital can't handle the patients. And so she said we decided to have an abortion. She said my wedding day was the worst day of my life. She said, Becky, I love my husband. We've had many children, but I am tortured. I do not know where to go with my guilt because I believe I have murdered an innocent life. I am haunted by the question, What have I destroyed? I know that God loves and forgives. But I cannot be released from this thought. How could I have ever murdered an innocent life? A thought came to me. And I was afraid to say it because she was so distraught. And I realized if this thought wasn't for God, I could destroy her. But she kept saying how could I have done this? How could I have murdered an
innocent life? I took a deep breath and I said, I don't know why you're so surprised. Because this isn't your first murder. It's your second. My dear friend. All of us are crucifiers when we look at the cross and you seem to feel more guilt over killing your own child than over killing God's child. All of us religious or irreligious good or bad, aborters or nonaborters. All of us show up as crucifiers. When we look at Jesus, Jesus died for all of our sin, past, present, and future. Luther says, We carry his very nails in our pockets. This isn't your first murder of an innocent, it's your second. And I'm just surprised that you're so surprised that you could do it. She looked at me in amazement and stopped crying. And she said, You're right. It's true. I have done something even worse than killing my own child. It doesn't matter that Jesus died 2000 years ago, he died for all of our sin. And I have never felt the same remorse over killing my son and killing God's Son. But she said, Becky, what you're really telling me is that I've done something even worse than the worst thing I could have ever imagined. I said, that's true. And she said, Becky, if the cross shows me as even worse than I thought, the cross also shows me that my evil has been absorbed and forgiven. And she sat back and said, Oh, Becky, talk about Amazing Grace. And I saw a woman literally transformed by a proper understanding of the cross. You see, she walked into the paradox of the cross, is the cross that insists on highlighting our badness in order to leave us absolutely no doubt that whatever we have done has been forgiven. I come with remorse and guilt over one thing. And the paradox of the cross is that it says, You think you're bad? You're even worse off than you thought? And if the worst thing anyone could ever do, which is our sin that sent Jesus to the cross, if that's forgiven? How can what you're confessing, not be forgiven as well. I think this woman intuitively recognize that God obeys the deepest psychological law of acceptance. And that is to be convinced, I have been accepted, I must be convinced I have been accepted at my most dreadful. That is why we can face our problems without despair. That is why we can look at the darkest things in our life without paralysis. Because even the confession of sin can be seen in the context of hope and joy, because God's solution is so wonderful. There is no one who can ever say, Well, God may love me. But if he really knew what I did, God says, I know what you've done. And you've done more than you even know you've done. And I love you, and I forgive you. The second image, we crucified him the second image, we were crucified with Him, Paul says, I've got the most wonderful news, you're all dead. Only say that guy was depressed on that day. I think he needed a Robert Schuller tape. But what does he mean? What does he mean that the cross enables us to die to something What are we to die to? God wants us to be free from the things that destroy us. He wants us to be whole. And the cross tells us that we don't have to live under the domination of our compulsions and neuroses and sins any longer. We have been given away out. We're not lost in enemy territory, we've come over into God's territory, we have been given choice. And that choice is the life
of the Spirit. And it is God's Spirit that will enable us that will infuse us and that will help us to become the people that God longs to be the battle with sin is going to continue, I can assure you of that. But I hope you've tasted the Spirit of God and His life within you and his resources to make you knew. Now what are the implications of the cross that we crucified Him, and we were crucified with Him as we share our faith. I think one of the most wonderful implications of the cross is that it frees us from the pretense of innocence. We live in a world that is absolutely terrified of being discovered, as being inadequate. You know, for all of our bravado and boasting the great secret about human beings is that we're so alike. We're all so afraid that we're inadequate. One of the wonderful things about the cross is that it frees us to own up to our badness, and to not live in despair over it to be to pretend to be innocent, in light of a cross is according to CS Lewis, like being a divorcee pretending to be a virgin integrity does not mean that we act as if we don't have a problem. Integrity means we refuse to deny that we do have a problem. We must abandon our lust for innocence. And any illusions we have about our innocence. No one can be innocent. After the fall, the sad truth is that we are all hopelessly centered in ourselves. We're self absorbed, self preoccupied, self centered people. There's no one's agenda that we care more about than our own. That's the disease of sin. And we've all got it. The good news is that once we recognize we're not innocent, once we recognize we have a problem, Jesus says, Help is on the way he wants to help us, and he wants to free us. The problem is that Christians seem to walk around acting like it's a sin to admit they were sinners. I remember hearing a TV evangelist, famous TV evangelist say, people asked me Do you struggle? And he said, Maybe I do. Maybe I don't, I'm not going to tell you about it. I just go to God, things if you don't you have tiffs with your wife or problems with your kids. He said, Maybe I do. Maybe I don't, I'm not going to tell you about it. I just go to God. And then he faces the camera and he said, oh, people don't share it all your problems and temptations. You just be a strong champion for Jesus. He said, I'm going to read a little poem that I think sums up the Christian life. It's called being a man. I just loved it. It went like this feel down feel discouraged. Be a man feel like throwing in the towel Be a man feel like giving up Be a man be a man be a man. Now, I counted the refrain Be a man 27 times in the whole poem. I have a little problem with that poem. Number one, I have a little trouble identifying with Title number two. Number two, I really and this is even far more serious, I think. Why did that man have such difficulty even acknowledging that he was tempted? I'm not suggesting that he share his sins before the television viewers as interesting as it might be to hear, but I thought Paul said I am the chief of sinners. Wouldn't that be refreshing over the TV airwaves? I do. I remember when Paul said he had a thorn in his flesh. And I do not recall when Jesus helped Paul with this thorn in the flesh. I do not recall Jesus saying to Paul, Paul, for crying out loud, would you just be quiet and be a man be a man
be a man? You know, buck up. Paul said, I will not Jesus said I will not take away this thorn in the flesh because I am glorified in your weakness. I TV evangelists did what we often do, we took a secular myth and spiritualized it really what he had done is taken the Lone Ranger cowboy motif. And he was a Marlboro man for Jesus. You know, he was sort of saying All I need is God, my horse. If I have a problem, I'll tell my horse, and they rode off in the sunset. It is not biblical Christianity. What is the cross mean and how we evangelize it means that we model repentance, by acknowledging that we are not innocent, we have a problem. And God is helping us and is the process of making us whole people a second implication of the cross. And what I love about the cross is that the cross is so very, very democratic. Everybody's in trouble. We all share that. There isn't anybody who's better off than someone else. We all desperately need God. This is no subtle image. The cross is a rather dramatic statement that we have a problem. That means Consequently, there is no room for superiority and there's no room for inferiority. Now, what does that mean, then in context of evangelism? Well, it means that we can't look at someone in the world and say, Oh, I could never relate to them. They're not godly. They're a sinner. As if the experience of sin is something foreign to us. How does that impact the way I have shared my faith? There's a couple that wasn't I became very close to in one of our assignments, in Wes's assignment? They were political reporters. She was by the most secular standards. somewhat shocking. She was jazzy. She were very seductive clothes. I used to tease her that I couldn't imagine she paid money for so little material. She smoked these slim cigars and always made a statement. Whenever she came into a room. I got to know her and I found out that she was bright and sensitive and tortured. She told me I knew she was married and had two children. She told me she was having an affair with a man who was also married and had some children. And I loved her and I shared my life with her and I kept always encouraging her to read the Bible. And I remember one day, she came to my house and she said, Becky, I have a specific question about the gospel of Mark and I said, I knew it. I've been praying for you and loving you and always telling you you need to read the scriptures is because I've been doing that. She said no, actually, she said, You know, I was with my lover last week, he is Jewish. And very unexpectedly, he turned to me and said, What do you think of Jesus? And she said, Pardon me? He said, Who do you think Jesus is? She said, Why do you ask? And he said, Well, I'm a Jew, I know something of the Old Testament. I just decided, I should know something of the New Testament, and I am so struck by Jesus, there is something very beautiful about who he is. So I thought you'd tell me. She said, Well, I'm very sorry. I take all my religious questions to Becky. So she had a list of all of her questions and the parting word from her lover was next week when we get together, among other things, I would like to study the gospel of Mark. Now, I have heard of it unusual context for a Bible study. This is first place. So I
said, Look, if you're really going to do a Bible study with him, and you've never read the Bible, let's study it together. She said, Okay. So we began to read the Bible. The first time we ever did this Bible study this woman and me, we began reading and she was so nervous and so uptight. And I said, What's the matter?
And she said, Well, excuse me, but can I ask you a personal question? I said, Yes. She said, Do you think the Bible would mind if I smoked a cigar? I said, I think it could handle it. Yeah. So she lit up a cigar. We're into the past. And she goes, Excuse me, but can I ask you another question? I said, certainly, she said, Do you think the Bible would mind if I had a glass of wine? I said, you could always ask it, I don't know. And so from that point on, we begin to read the scriptures every week, with her glass of wine, her cigar in her hand, and we'd read about Jesus. It was amazing to see her responses. And I remember one study in particular of Jesus with the prostitute at Simon's banquet. And she looked at me and she said, Becky, all of my life, I have thought I was worth a piece of dirt. And I was sure if there's a God, and I don't think there is, but if he does exist, I'm sure he concurs with my analysis. Nobody needs to tell me, I'm lost. I know, I'm lost. I know I'm groping in the dark. And I thought, if there is a God, he despises my blindness. And my lostness. What I can't get over is that if you're lost, Jesus loves you more than ever. And if you're lost in you know, you're lost, you are probably close to the kingdom of God. She's like, can you imagine that? Me close to the kingdom of God? And I said, Oh, yes, I can. And she said, Becky, I can't get over Jesus. I put down my Bible, and I began to cry. And I said, you know, I've been a Christian for 20 years. And I can't get over Jesus either. I said, obedience is not easy. It's harder than it was when I first became a Christian, but the joy of knowing God, and of knowing that he is our wholeness. I said, I don't know what's going to happen to you. I hope with all my heart, you become a Christian, and that you find the wholeness that God wants, but you'll never be the same. She broke off the relationship with that man. She is trying to make her marriage work. They were assigned overseas, and she called me from overseas. And she said, I haven't become a Christian yet, but I'm reading the Bible. I'm reading the Bible to my children. And she said, I found a minister and his wife. I don't know Becky, she said, they have an aroma that reminds me of you. But she said, frankly, I find the church a little uptight. I said, What? Try wearing more clothes. It's just a thought. I hope with all of my being that she comes to know God. But the question I want to ask you is, why do I have the freedom to relate to a woman like this? Because the cross shows me I'm no different. That is the wonder, do you think it matters to Jesus, that He went to the cross and died for one set of sins have happened to be different from another. The cross shows me I'm no different. And that's why we have this tremendous bond to the world. I need to be forgiven as desperately as she does. I can't put down a cup of coffee without needing someone to forgive me and love me. And that's the wonderful news is that we are loved and we are
forgiven. God does so much more for us than we could ever dream of doing for him. We must recognize that the cross leads us into relationship to the world. Out of joyful gratitude for all that God has done And so what does it mean as we go back to our campuses to be a witness to the world, it means that we must refuse to feign innocence. But to Christ for holding us, it means that we must reach out with open arms and embrace the world. Embrace your roommate and your neighbor as deeply as God has embraced you. You do not need to go immediately overseas, be a missionary on campus, do the preparation and love with the love of Jesus. And lastly, what it means to be a witness is joy. That is the byproduct of knowing Jesus. And as GK Chesterton says joy, which was the small publicity of the pagan is the gigantic secret of the Christian. Amen.